Communication
Communication


May 12, 2025
May 12, 2025
40 min
Have you ever wanted to respond to your spouse with more patience, understanding, and kindness? In this week's episode of the Marriage By Design Podcast, Nathan and Andrea address a heartfelt listener request for practical advice on cultivating gentleness in marriage.
Whether you're a husband wanting to soften your approach or a wife looking to foster more tender interactions, this episode is packed with actionable tips and biblical wisdom to help you create a more peaceful and loving home.
In this episode, you'll learn:
What gentleness truly looks like in the context of marriage.
The powerful impact of gentle communication on your relationship.
Practical strategies for identifying triggers and responding with more patience.
How to choose your words and tone with intention and kindness.
The importance of empathy and seeing things from your spouse's perspective.
How to extend grace and forgiveness in your daily interactions.
Join Nathan and Andrea as they explore the transformative power of gentleness and provide encouragement for building a marriage characterized by love, understanding, and mutual respect. It's time to trade harshness for harmony and cultivate a truly tender connection with your spouse.
Watch now for practical steps you can implement today to be a gentler husband (or wife)!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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May 1, 2025
May 1, 2025
56 sec
Ever wish you could respond to your spouse with more gentleness? ❤️ You're not alone! In our next podcast, Nathan & Andrea are tackling a listener's request for practical tips on cultivating a gentler approach in marriage. Tune in for actionable advice!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Mar 31, 2025
Mar 31, 2025
38 min
Are you tired of feeling like your happiness in marriage is constantly dependent on your spouse's actions? Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle of blame, resentment, and negativity? If so, you might be struggling with a victim mentality.
In this episode of the Marriage By Design Podcast, we're diving deep into the destructive impact of a victim mentality on marital relationships. We'll explore:
What a victim mentality is and how it manifests in marriage.
The signs to look out for in yourself and your partner.
How this mindset erodes intimacy, communication, and trust.
Practical, biblical strategies to break free from this pattern.
How to take responsibility for your own happiness and build a stronger, more resilient marriage.
We'll equip you with actionable tools and biblical wisdom to shift your perspective, foster healthier communication, and cultivate a relationship built on grace, forgiveness, and personal responsibility.
Don't let a destructive mindset steal your joy and sabotage your marriage. Join us as we explore how to break free from the blame game and start building the marriage God intended for you!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Apr 29, 2024
Apr 29, 2024
37 min
We have spoken to SO MANY couples that really struggle with overcoming "surface level" communication and getting to talking about the deeper things of themselves and their relationship. Today we talk practically about the things that we have found lead to deeper levels of communication. Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Nov 27, 2023
Nov 27, 2023
30 min
On today's Marriage Monday, Nathan and Andrea unpack an issue that comes up regularly with couples that they mentor. Hobbies. Friends. Interests. Sure, they existed prior to the marriage, but now that we are married and have "become one" shouldn't we ditch those previous hobbies, friends, and interests and just invest in our life together? At the end of the day, it all boils down to balance, counting the cost, and thinking of your spouse first! Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Nov 24, 2023
Nov 24, 2023
54 sec
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Oct 2, 2023
Oct 2, 2023
31 min
Struggling with emotional intimacy in your relationship? Just want to grow deeper in emotional intimacy? You found the right place! In this episode, Nathan and Andrea give a definition to that amorphous term "emotional intimacy" and talk about the 3 things that you need to grow emotional intimacy in your marriage. Then they end with some practical steps you can take today! Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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