The Hidden Killer: Pornography Isn't The Problem. It Is The Symptom.

It’s not just a "private struggle." 💔 Pornography is a counterfeit intimacy that promises connection without cost, but it always leaves a trail of wreckage in its wake. In our latest episode, Nathan and Andrea pull back the curtain on why this is a marital crisis—and why treating it as a simple "bad habit" keeps us from the heart of the issue.
Step out of the dark and into the light of God’s design.
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The Drive-Thru Trap: Why You Can’t Have Marriage "Your Way"

Is your marriage stuck in "Same-Day Delivery" mode? 📦 In a world of instant gratification, we’ve accidentally started expecting our marriages to be fixed with the click of a button. But Nathan and Andrea are diving into the danger of The Amazon Prime Marriage. If you’re demanding an instant resolution to every conflict, you might be missing the deep, slow growth God has for you.
Discover why the best things in marriage aren't delivered in 48 hours.
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Cultivating Gentleness in the Marriage Relationship

Have you ever wanted to respond to your spouse with more patience, understanding, and kindness? In this week's episode of the Marriage By Design Podcast, Nathan and Andrea address a heartfelt listener request for practical advice on cultivating gentleness in marriage.
Whether you're a husband wanting to soften your approach or a wife looking to foster more tender interactions, this episode is packed with actionable tips and biblical wisdom to help you create a more peaceful and loving home.
In this episode, you'll learn:
What gentleness truly looks like in the context of marriage.
The powerful impact of gentle communication on your relationship.
Practical strategies for identifying triggers and responding with more patience.
How to choose your words and tone with intention and kindness.
The importance of empathy and seeing things from your spouse's perspective.
How to extend grace and forgiveness in your daily interactions.
Join Nathan and Andrea as they explore the transformative power of gentleness and provide encouragement for building a marriage characterized by love, understanding, and mutual respect. It's time to trade harshness for harmony and cultivate a truly tender connection with your spouse.
Watch now for practical steps you can implement today to be a gentler husband (or wife)!
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Upcoming Marriage Monday - Cultivating Gentleness in the Marriage Relationship

Ever wish you could respond to your spouse with more gentleness? ❤️ You're not alone! In our next podcast, Nathan & Andrea are tackling a listener's request for practical tips on cultivating a gentler approach in marriage. Tune in for actionable advice!
 
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The Devastating Reality of Spiritual Abuse

Abuse is something that we all take (rightfully) very seriously.  However, it seems that spiritual abuse is oftern overlooked, particularly in Christian marriages.  If you or someone you know is being spiritually abused, please know that you are not alone. There is help available. In this episode of the podcast, we will discuss what spiritual abuse is, how to recognize it, and how to make sure that we are not spiritually abusing those that we love.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Hump Day 90 - Is it ever okay for a husband to go to the strip club?

It is never okay for a husband to go to the strip club.
 
A husband's trip to a strip club is a betrayal of trust and a violation of the sacred bond of marriage. It is not okay, and it is never acceptable.
 
A strip club is a place where women are objectified and degraded. It is a place where men go to pay for the attention and affection that they should be getting from their wives.
 
When a husband goes to a strip club, he is telling his wife that she is not enough. He is telling her that he is not satisfied with the love and intimacy that they share.
 
This is a devastating message for a wife to receive. It can damage her self-esteem and make her feel insecure in her marriage - and it is a sin before the Lord.
 
If you are a husband who is considering going to a strip club, please reconsider. Think about the pain that you could cause your wife. Think about the damage that you could do to your marriage.
 
It is not worth it.
 
Instead, focus on strengthening your marriage. Spend time with your wife. Tell her how much you love and appreciate her. Show her that she is the only woman you need.
 
Your marriage is too precious to risk. Don't let a trip to the strip club undermine the foundation of your marriage.
 
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Spiritual Warfare In Marriage

Marriage is a sacred covenant, but it's not immune to spiritual attacks. In our latest podcast, we delve into the realities of spiritual warfare in marriage. We'll discuss common tactics used by the enemy, such as discord, temptation, and discouragement. We'll also provide practical strategies for protecting your marriage, including the power of prayer, forgiveness, and building spiritual intimacy.
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Money Matters: Honoring God with Finances in Marriage

Is money a source of stress in your marriage? 😓  Join us on the Biblical Marriage By Design podcast as we explore how to honor God with your finances and build a stronger relationship through wise stewardship. 🎧
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Quiet Quitting In Your Marriage

This whole problem of "quiet quitting" came into vogue after 2020 and presented unique challenges within the professional world.  Unfortunately, this idea of "quiet quitting" is not a problem that is limited to the professional world.  It is alive and well within marriage - maybe even yours? Let's get into that!
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Sex, Nakedness, and Russian Roulette

We received a really thought provoking question from a viewer a couple of weeks ago that we wanted to address in a full podcast.  This is that podcast.  Is it wrong to watch television shows or movies with "just a little bit of sex/explicit content in them?  I mean, it isn't exactly porn, right? Let's get into that!
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Going Back To "Naked & Unashamed"

Shame is such a huge part of what it means to be human. Where does it come from? Well, in short - it comes right from the beginning of the fall of man. Our perceived failures to meet a standard leads to shame and that shame can lead to a meltdown in our marriages as we hide and blame in an attempt to ease our shame. NO MORE! It is time to get back to "naked and unashamed."  Let's get into that!
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Marriage & The Gospel, Part 4: Your Response is Your Responsibility

Final episode in the kick-off series to Season 5 of the Marriage By Design Podcast. Men and women respond very differently to feeling injustice in their marriage. Either way, our response is our responsibility. What does this look like within the context of marriage? Let's get into that!
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Marriage & The Gospel, Part 2: Identifying The Problem

We continue where we left off last week when we recognized together that our marriages - and our lives generally - are not about us!  We are created to give glory to God through the way that we live our lives and that should show through in our marriages.  So, how do we recognize when that "me mentality" is creeping into our relationships?  Let's get into that!
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Marriage & The Gospel, Part 1: The Hard Truth About You

We are kicking off Season 5 by diving into a new series all about how our mindsets as Christian individuals should be intimately weaved into our mindsets as Christian spouses......but we have found that is tragically rarely the case.  Lots of people say they understand the Gospel and believe in it fully, but their marriages suggest differently.  Where is the disconnect?  Spoiler.....it is tied to that human monster that live within each of us.  Let's get into that!
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You CANNOT "Will" Happiness Into Your Life.....or Your Marriage! Stop Doing This "Popular" Thing That Prevents Growth In Your Relationship!

Last episode for Season 4 of the Marriage By Design Podcast!  So many people have bought into the modern lie that "if you believe it then it will be so."  All experiential evidence around us refutes this believe and tries to convince us that we can change our emotions by just desiring or willing them to change.  But that won't change your emotions and it certainly won't change your marriage.  It is time to commit to the real work - the hard work - in marriage.  Let's get into that!
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Marriage: What Did I Actually Commit To What I Got Married? Who Is The Object Of My Commitment?

We all know that marriage is this amorphous idea we refer to as "commitment".  But what even is that?  Is it like an advanced version of a "pinky swear"?  Or is it something more?  And who are we are actually committing to when we get married?  Commitment questions abound! Let's get into that!
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"I am a Christian, but my fiance is not. Should I go ahead and marry him?" - 90 Second Q&A

Wednesday Q&A! Nathan and Andrea hit up the mailbag and answer a question.  Check it out and please share this video/audio with anyone that you know who may be considering marriage!
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Emotions - Why They Attempt To Control Us And How We Can Take Back Control

We all have emotions.  God has put those emotions into our psyche and they can be helpful.  But o often we allow them to get the better of us and our emotions wreck havoc on our relationships.  Why?  What does it look like to take back control?  Let's get into that!
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ICYMI - Enemies Of The State Of Marriage, Part 5 - ME!

NEW MARRIAGE MONDAY on the Marriage By Design Podcast this week!  Nathan and Andrea continue their series taking a look at some of the influences around us that can be the most destructive forces on our marriages. This week they take a look at the biggest danger in our marriages -ME. Let's get into that! 
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Enemies of the State of Marriage, Part 5 - ME!

On today's Marriage Monday, Nathan and Andrea finish their series by digging into the biggest enemy of marriage - our own selfish desires!  Let's get into that!
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