Beyond Family: Re-evaluating Our Primary Responsibility

What is our #1 stewardship responsibility in marriage? 🤔
Andrea shares a recent challenge from the Lord that shifted her perspective on this important question. Get ready for a powerful and eye-opening conversation!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Top 5 Things We Have Learned About Married People (After 10 Years Of Marriage Ministry!)

After a decade of dedicated marriage ministry, Nathan and Andrea have had the incredible opportunity to walk alongside countless couples, witnessing their joys, struggles, and everything in between. In this insightful episode, they're pulling back the curtain and sharing the TOP 5 most significant things they've learned about married people during their 10 years of service.
Whether you're newly engaged, navigating the early years of marriage, or have been together for decades, these hard-earned lessons offer valuable perspective and practical wisdom for building a stronger, more fulfilling partnership.
In this episode, Nathan and Andrea discuss:
The recurring themes they've observed in successful marriages.
Common challenges that many couples face.
Surprising insights into the dynamics of long-term commitment.
Practical takeaways you can apply to your own relationship today.
Encouragement and hope for every stage of marriage.
Get ready for an honest, relatable, and encouraging conversation filled with the wisdom that comes from years of supporting and guiding married couples. You might just find the insight you need to navigate your own journey with more understanding and grace!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Danger of a Victim Mentality in Marriage | Stop Blaming & Start Building!

Are you tired of feeling like your happiness in marriage is constantly dependent on your spouse's actions? Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle of blame, resentment, and negativity? If so, you might be struggling with a victim mentality.
In this episode of the Marriage By Design Podcast, we're diving deep into the destructive impact of a victim mentality on marital relationships. We'll explore:
What a victim mentality is and how it manifests in marriage.
The signs to look out for in yourself and your partner.
How this mindset erodes intimacy, communication, and trust.
Practical, biblical strategies to break free from this pattern.
How to take responsibility for your own happiness and build a stronger, more resilient marriage.
We'll equip you with actionable tools and biblical wisdom to shift your perspective, foster healthier communication, and cultivate a relationship built on grace, forgiveness, and personal responsibility.
Don't let a destructive mindset steal your joy and sabotage your marriage. Join us as we explore how to break free from the blame game and start building the marriage God intended for you!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Devastating Reality of Spiritual Abuse

Abuse is something that we all take (rightfully) very seriously.  However, it seems that spiritual abuse is oftern overlooked, particularly in Christian marriages.  If you or someone you know is being spiritually abused, please know that you are not alone. There is help available. In this episode of the podcast, we will discuss what spiritual abuse is, how to recognize it, and how to make sure that we are not spiritually abusing those that we love.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Spiritual Warfare In Marriage

Marriage is a sacred covenant, but it's not immune to spiritual attacks. In our latest podcast, we delve into the realities of spiritual warfare in marriage. We'll discuss common tactics used by the enemy, such as discord, temptation, and discouragement. We'll also provide practical strategies for protecting your marriage, including the power of prayer, forgiveness, and building spiritual intimacy.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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💖 Intimacy Isn't Just for the Bedroom! 💖

Does life feel like a constant rush? 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️ It's easy to let connection with your spouse take a backseat. But what if we told you that intimacy isn't just for special occasions? On the latest Marriage By Design Podcast, we're exploring the beauty of "everyday intimacy" – the small, intentional moments that build a strong and lasting bond. We'll cover everything from the power of physical touch to the impact of words of affirmation. Join us as we uncover God's design for intimacy in marriage and learn how to practically apply it to your daily life.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Date Night Doesn't Die After Diapers: Keeping Romance Alive While Parenting

😴 Exhausted parents, this one's for you! 😴 We know how hard it is to find time for romance when you're juggling diapers, tantrums, and sleepless nights. But prioritizing your marriage is crucial, even when you're tired. In this episode, we're sharing practical tips for keeping the spark alive while raising young children.  Don't miss it!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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💕 From First Dates to Empty Nests: How Dating Evolves (and Why it Matters!) 💕

💖 Date Night Never Gets Old! 💖
Whether you're newlyweds or empty nesters, dating your spouse is essential for a thriving marriage. This Monday on the Biblical Marriage By Design Podcast, we're exploring how dating evolves through different seasons of life. Tune in for practical tips and inspiration!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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More Than "Meh": Rejecting Mediocrity in Your Marriage

Is your marriage more "meh" than magnificent? 🤔  On this episode of Marriage By Design, we're challenging the "ho-hum" and inspiring you to pursue a marriage that truly reflects God's glory and the intimate and exciting relationship that God desires to have with YOU! ✨
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Money Matters: Honoring God with Finances in Marriage

Is money a source of stress in your marriage? 😓  Join us on the Biblical Marriage By Design podcast as we explore how to honor God with your finances and build a stronger relationship through wise stewardship. 🎧
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Loving Jesus While Loving Christmas - You Can Do Both!

Join us on the Marriage By Design Podcast as we delve into the history and traditions of Christmas. We'll explore the fascinating origins of this holiday and ask some tricky questions - 
Can Christians celebrate the birth of Christ while navigating the secular aspects of Christmas?
Is the birth of Christ a "necessary" element of Christmas?
How do we deal with Christmas in our home?
Let's get into that!🎧
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Cultivating Gratitude: Appreciating Your Spouse God's Way

In this episode, we're diving deep into the biblical roots of thankfulness and how it can revolutionize your marriage.  Discover practical tips and scriptural wisdom to:
See your spouse through God's eyes. 🙏
Express appreciation in meaningful ways. 💕
Shift your focus to the positive. 😊
Build a stronger, more joyful connection. 💪
Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Quiet Quitting In Your Marriage

This whole problem of "quiet quitting" came into vogue after 2020 and presented unique challenges within the professional world.  Unfortunately, this idea of "quiet quitting" is not a problem that is limited to the professional world.  It is alive and well within marriage - maybe even yours? Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Sex, Nakedness, and Russian Roulette

We received a really thought provoking question from a viewer a couple of weeks ago that we wanted to address in a full podcast.  This is that podcast.  Is it wrong to watch television shows or movies with "just a little bit of sex/explicit content in them?  I mean, it isn't exactly porn, right? Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Owner vs. Steward. Which type of parent are you?

Parenting is one of the most difficult parts of marriage. It is difficult to know what our attitude towards our kids should be. What does God say about the having and raising of children? What does that tell us about how we should be raising our children? Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Marriage & The Gospel, Part 4: Your Response is Your Responsibility

Final episode in the kick-off series to Season 5 of the Marriage By Design Podcast. Men and women respond very differently to feeling injustice in their marriage. Either way, our response is our responsibility. What does this look like within the context of marriage? Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Marriage & The Gospel, Part 3: The Selfless Gospel

On to episode #3 discussing how the Gospel relates to marriage.  This is the one where we dig into what the Gospel message really is - and why it is simply incompatible to claim understanding and submission to the Gospel while failing to submit yourself to your spouse in your marriage. Let's get into that!
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Marriage & The Gospel, Part 2: Identifying The Problem

We continue where we left off last week when we recognized together that our marriages - and our lives generally - are not about us!  We are created to give glory to God through the way that we live our lives and that should show through in our marriages.  So, how do we recognize when that "me mentality" is creeping into our relationships?  Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Marriage & The Gospel, Part 1: The Hard Truth About You

We are kicking off Season 5 by diving into a new series all about how our mindsets as Christian individuals should be intimately weaved into our mindsets as Christian spouses......but we have found that is tragically rarely the case.  Lots of people say they understand the Gospel and believe in it fully, but their marriages suggest differently.  Where is the disconnect?  Spoiler.....it is tied to that human monster that live within each of us.  Let's get into that!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Welcome to Marriage By Design, Season 5!

The onset of autumn means it is time for Marriage By Design, Season 5!  We are so excited for the next few months of considering God's design for marriage and encouraging you in your relationships.  Please join us as we champion marriages together.  Let's get into that! 
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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