Marriage By Design Podcast

The Marriage By Design Podcast is a video podcast dedicated to digging into God’s design for marriage and family - as well as talking about practically how we live that out in our own marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God’s design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
The Marriage By Design Podcast is a video podcast dedicated to digging into God’s design for marriage and family - as well as talking about practically how we live that out in our own marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God’s design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
Episodes
Episodes



Mar 3, 2026
Mar 3, 2026
33 sec
You can say all the right words and still be worlds apart. 🗣️💔
In our latest episode, we’re exposing "The Liturgy Trap"—the danger of letting marital routines replace true intimacy. Stop "sleepwalking" through your covenant and start reclaiming the fire.
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Mar 2, 2026
Mar 2, 2026
36 min
Is your marriage on spiritual autopilot? It’s easy to build a life out of "good" rhythms—the way you say goodbye, the way you pray before meals, or the way you attend church every Sunday. But sometimes, the liturgy of our marriage becomes a mask for a lack of intimacy. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock dive into "The Liturgy Trap," exploring the dangerous gap between going through the motions and truly connecting with your spouse’s heart.
Join us as we discuss how to identify "dead forms" in your relationship and provide practical steps to move from a scripted performance to a raw, God-designed fire.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Feb 19, 2026
Feb 19, 2026
57 sec
You can say the right words and still be worlds apart. 🗣️💔 Nathan and Andrea dive into the danger of letting "religious" or "marital" liturgy replace true, raw intimacy. Is your routine a bridge or a barrier?
Listen to the new episode: 👇
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Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Feb 18, 2026
The Hump Day 90 - "Is sports gambling a sin?"
Feb 18, 2026
Feb 18, 2026
1 min
"It’s just five dollars..." until it isn't. 📉 Nathan shares some post-Super Bowl thoughts on the subtle trap of gambling apps. We talk a lot about "Marriage By Design," and God’s design involves protecting the resources He’s given us to care for our wives and children. Don't let a "game" create a real-life crisis in your living room.
Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇
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Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Feb 17, 2026
Feb 17, 2026
41 sec
Hunger makes for terrible decisions. 🍲 Esau traded his entire inheritance for one meal because he felt "starving" in the moment. Are you trading your marriage's future for a "bowl of soup" today? Nathan & Andrea discuss how to protect your birthright from the Lord in marriage.
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Feb 16, 2026
Feb 16, 2026
25 min
Would you trade your family's future for a bowl of soup? 🥣 It sounds extreme, but we do it every time we prioritize a "right now" craving over a "forever" covenant. In our latest episode, Nathan and Andrea look at the story of Esau to uncover the "Lentil Soup Traps" in modern marriage—like choosing to win an argument over winning your spouse's heart.
Stop trading your birthright for a temporary fix.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Feb 12, 2026
Feb 12, 2026
30 sec
Would you trade your future for a bowl of soup? 🥣 It sounds crazy, but in our latest episode, we look at the story of Esau and Jacob to uncover a startling truth about modern marriage. We often trade the "birthright" of a deep, lifelong covenant for the "lentil soup" of temporary comfort, instant gratification, or winning an argument.
Are you choosing what’s hot now over what’s holy forever? 👇
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Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Feb 4, 2026
Feb 4, 2026
1 min
Is "Bible-believing" just a buzzword? 🤔 Nathan explains why it’s about more than just owning a Bible—it’s about the authority of Scripture in every area of life.
Watch the new Midweek Check-in here: 👇
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Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Feb 3, 2026
Feb 3, 2026
48 sec
Pornography promises intimacy but delivers isolation. 🛑 It’s a counterfeit that steals the "mental real estate" meant for your spouse. Nathan and Andrea discuss the real heart issues driving the addiction in our new episode.
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Feb 2, 2026
Feb 2, 2026
31 min
It’s not just a "private struggle." 💔 Pornography is a counterfeit intimacy that promises connection without cost, but it always leaves a trail of wreckage in its wake. In our latest episode, Nathan and Andrea pull back the curtain on why this is a marital crisis—and why treating it as a simple "bad habit" keeps us from the heart of the issue.
Step out of the dark and into the light of God’s design.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 29, 2026
Jan 29, 2026
52 sec
It’s more than just a "bad habit." 💔 Pornography isn't just a struggle with self-control; it’s a devastating counterfeit for the intimacy God designed for marriage. Nathan and Andrea are getting raw and honest about the wreckage it leaves behind and, more importantly, the real spiritual issues driving it.
Find out why transparency is the only path to true freedom. 👇
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Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 28, 2026
Jan 28, 2026
1 min
"Men should touch their wives as much as they touch their phones." 📱👀
Andrea heard this quote recently, and it stopped us in our tracks. This Midweek Check-in is a bit more personal as we discuss the reality of digital distraction. We're talking about the power of physical presence and why a thumb-swipe can never replace a hand-hold.
Are we giving our screens more "reach" than our spouses? 👇
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Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 27, 2026
Jan 27, 2026
48 sec
Your spouse isn't a product and your marriage isn't a subscription service. 🛑 If you have an "I want it fixed NOW" mentality, you're treating a covenant like a consumer choice. Nathan & Andrea discuss the "Amazon Prime" trap in the latest episode.
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Jan 26, 2026
Jan 26, 2026
34 min
Is your marriage stuck in "Same-Day Delivery" mode? 📦 In a world of instant gratification, we’ve accidentally started expecting our marriages to be fixed with the click of a button. But Nathan and Andrea are diving into the danger of The Amazon Prime Marriage. If you’re demanding an instant resolution to every conflict, you might be missing the deep, slow growth God has for you.
Discover why the best things in marriage aren't delivered in 48 hours.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 22, 2026
Jan 22, 2026
28 sec
Marriage isn't a drive-thru. 🍟 If you’re approaching your relationship with an "I want it fixed NOW" attitude, you’re setting yourself up for frustration. Nathan & Andrea discuss how consumerism is poisoning modern marriages in our latest episode.
MarriageByDesignPodcast.com
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 21, 2026
Jan 21, 2026
1 min
Midweek Check-in. 🛑 This week, Nathan is answering a heavy and deeply personal question: "My spouse and I got married before we became Christians. Does that mean we can get a divorce?" It’s a common struggle for those who found faith after their "I do’s." Nathan dives into what Scripture says about the sanctity of the marriage covenant, regardless of when it started.
Watch for a perspective rooted in grace and commitment.
MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 20, 2026
Jan 20, 2026
35 sec
Is your spouse a partner or a project? 🧐 If you're exhausted from trying to "fix" things through sheer willpower, it's time for a different approach. Nathan & Andrea dive into the power of God's design in "The Behavior Trap."
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Jan 19, 2026
Jan 19, 2026
26 min
Are you stuck in the "Behavior Trap"? 🛠️ Most of us try to fix our marriages by changing what we do—nagging less, helping more, or following a checklist. But if the heart doesn't change, the "improvement" won't last. Nathan and Andrea discuss why behavior modification is a dead end and how true submission to God's design is the only way to lasting transformation.
Stop managing symptoms and start healing the root.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 15, 2026
Jan 15, 2026
55 sec
You can’t "life-hack" your way to a holy marriage. 🛑 Behavior modification might change the symptoms, but only submission to God's design heals the root. Nathan & Andrea discuss the danger of the "fix-it" mentality in their upcoming episode.
Be encouraged this coming Monday!
MarriageByDesignPodcast.com
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Jan 14, 2026
Jan 14, 2026
1 min
Midweek Check-in. 🛑 If you feel like your marriage has become one long, exhausting argument, you aren't alone. Today, Nathan tackles the heavy question: "How do we actually stop the constant fighting?" He shares the first step to breaking the cycle and moving toward peace.
Watch for the strategy to change the temperature in your home! 👇
MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Who Are You People?
Nathan & Andrea Warnock were married December 17, 2005. After spending the first 8 years of their marriage doing everything that they could think of to ruin their marriage (Don't believe me? Watch this, they finally decided to stop running from the Lord and submit fully to His plan of marriage (For that story, watch this).
Shortly after the Lord began His work in Nathan & Andrea's marriage, He called them to stand up for His plan in the marriages of others. That was over 10 years ago! Since then, Nathan & Andrea have had the privilege of working closely with dozens of couples who are dealing with everything from dating issues to engagement questions to crisis within their marriage. Throughout all of these situations, Nathan & Andrea try to always bring these couples back to one thing - the never failing, peace giving Word of God. Within those sweet words lie the freedom and joy that we are all looking for in our marriages and our families.
Nathan & Andrea have five children - Jaxon, Rhyan, Ryker, Lincoln, and Easton. Andrea homeschools the "school-agers" and does her best (which is exceptional) to corral the others. Nathan runs a business with his parents, coaches baseball for the boys, and does nerdy stuff with his friends.
Thank you for taking your marriage and family seriously and for checking out our podcast! You can access all our socials from the links below - and access audio only versions of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, or your favorite podcast provider.







