Marriage By Design Podcast

Cultivating Gentleness in the Marriage Relationship

Have you ever wanted to respond to your spouse with more patience, understanding, and kindness? In this week's episode of the Marriage By Design Podcast, Nathan and Andrea address a heartfelt listener request for practical advice on cultivating gentleness in marriage.
Whether you're a husband wanting to soften your approach or a wife looking to foster more tender interactions, this episode is packed with actionable tips and biblical wisdom to help you create a more peaceful and loving home.
In this episode, you'll learn:
What gentleness truly looks like in the context of marriage.
The powerful impact of gentle communication on your relationship.
Practical strategies for identifying triggers and responding with more patience.
How to choose your words and tone with intention and kindness.
The importance of empathy and seeing things from your spouse's perspective.
How to extend grace and forgiveness in your daily interactions.
Join Nathan and Andrea as they explore the transformative power of gentleness and provide encouragement for building a marriage characterized by love, understanding, and mutual respect. It's time to trade harshness for harmony and cultivate a truly tender connection with your spouse.
Watch now for practical steps you can implement today to be a gentler husband (or wife)!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Upcoming Marriage Monday - Cultivating Gentleness in the Marriage Relationship

Ever wish you could respond to your spouse with more gentleness? ❤️ You're not alone! In our next podcast, Nathan & Andrea are tackling a listener's request for practical tips on cultivating a gentler approach in marriage. Tune in for actionable advice!
 
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Hump Day 90 - The Importance of Building Up Trust Daily - Even In The Small Things!

Andrea's here with a quick reminder about something HUGE in marriage (and all relationships!): TRUST is built DAILY, one small promise at a time. 💪 Following through on those little commitments? That's where the real magic happens. ✨
 
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ICYMI - Beyond Family: Re-evaluating Our Primary Responsibility

Discover your NUMBER ONE stewardship responsibility in marriage! 🔑 Andrea shares a recent conviction from the Lord that will challenge and inspire you in your relationship - with your family but more importantly, with God! Tune in to this important podcast episode.
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Beyond Family: Re-evaluating Our Primary Responsibility

What is our #1 stewardship responsibility in marriage? 🤔
Andrea shares a recent challenge from the Lord that shifted her perspective on this important question. Get ready for a powerful and eye-opening conversation!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Upcoming Marriage Monday - Beyond Family: Re-evaluating Our Primary Responsibility

You might be surprised! 👀 In our next podcast, Nathan & Andrea discuss the most important thing God has entrusted us with, and it's NOT your spouse or your kids. Get ready for a thought-provoking conversation!
 
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Hump Day 90 - The Real Danger of Expecting Too Much from Your Spouse

In today's check in, Nathan talks about the danger of expecting our spouse to be everything we need. He shares how this unrealistic expectation can lead to disappointment and resentment in a relationship.
 
He reminds us that we need to find fulfillment in our relationship with God and other healthy relationships in our lives, in addition to our spouse.
 
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ICYMI - Top 5 Things We Have Learned About Married People (After 10 Years Of Marriage Ministry!)

Ever wondered what the most common threads are in successful marriages? 🧵 Nathan and Andrea are spilling the tea (the good, helpful tea!) in their latest podcast! They're sharing their TOP 5 things learned from 10 years of marriage ministry. Don't miss these valuable insights!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Top 5 Things We Have Learned About Married People (After 10 Years Of Marriage Ministry!)

After a decade of dedicated marriage ministry, Nathan and Andrea have had the incredible opportunity to walk alongside countless couples, witnessing their joys, struggles, and everything in between. In this insightful episode, they're pulling back the curtain and sharing the TOP 5 most significant things they've learned about married people during their 10 years of service.
Whether you're newly engaged, navigating the early years of marriage, or have been together for decades, these hard-earned lessons offer valuable perspective and practical wisdom for building a stronger, more fulfilling partnership.
In this episode, Nathan and Andrea discuss:
The recurring themes they've observed in successful marriages.
Common challenges that many couples face.
Surprising insights into the dynamics of long-term commitment.
Practical takeaways you can apply to your own relationship today.
Encouragement and hope for every stage of marriage.
Get ready for an honest, relatable, and encouraging conversation filled with the wisdom that comes from years of supporting and guiding married couples. You might just find the insight you need to navigate your own journey with more understanding and grace!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Upcoming Marriage Monday - Top 5 Things We Have Learned About Married People (After 10 Years Of Marriage Ministry!)

Want to strengthen your marriage? 💪 This coming Monday, Nathan and Andrea share their TOP 5 observations about married people after 10 years of ministry. Get ready to gain valuable insights and practical tips!
 
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Hump Day 90 - What is the best part of being a "big family"?

Big family love! ❤️ Andrea's sharing her favorite things about their crew in a new mid-week check in! Laughter, chaos, & SO much love!  What's YOUR favorite thing about family?  👇 Watch here!
 
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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ICYMI - The Danger of a Victim Mentality in Marriage

Are you feeling stuck in a cycle of blame and resentment in your marriage? 💔 It's easy to fall into a "victim mentality," but it can seriously damage your relationship. This week on the podcast, we're diving deep into how to recognize this pattern and break free! Discover practical tips and biblical wisdom to build a healthier, more fulfilling marriage. Tune in now!
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The Danger of a Victim Mentality in Marriage | Stop Blaming & Start Building!

Are you tired of feeling like your happiness in marriage is constantly dependent on your spouse's actions? Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle of blame, resentment, and negativity? If so, you might be struggling with a victim mentality.
In this episode of the Marriage By Design Podcast, we're diving deep into the destructive impact of a victim mentality on marital relationships. We'll explore:
What a victim mentality is and how it manifests in marriage.
The signs to look out for in yourself and your partner.
How this mindset erodes intimacy, communication, and trust.
Practical, biblical strategies to break free from this pattern.
How to take responsibility for your own happiness and build a stronger, more resilient marriage.
We'll equip you with actionable tools and biblical wisdom to shift your perspective, foster healthier communication, and cultivate a relationship built on grace, forgiveness, and personal responsibility.
Don't let a destructive mindset steal your joy and sabotage your marriage. Join us as we explore how to break free from the blame game and start building the marriage God intended for you!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Upcoming Marriage Monday - The Danger of a Victim Mentality in Marriage

In our upcoming podcast, we'll be discussing the dangerous effects of a victim mentality in marriage. A victim mentality can be a major obstacle to a healthy, fulfilling, and (most importantly) God-honoring relationship. It can lead to resentment, bitterness, and a general sense of unhappiness.
 
In this podcast, we'll explore the signs of a victim mentality in marriage, as well as the ways to overcome it. We'll also talk about the importance of taking responsibility for your own actions and well-being.
 
Key Points:
 
-The signs of a victim mentality in marriage.
-The dangers of a victim mentality.
-How to overcome a victim mentality.
-The importance of taking responsibility for your own actions.
 
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Hump Day 90 - Is it okay to divorce if we never.....you know.....?

MBD GOES TO THE MAIL BAG --> Is it Biblically acceptable to divorce if my marriage was never consummated?
 
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ICYMI - The Devastating Reality of Spiritual Abuse

NEW MARRIAGE MONDAY on the Marriage By Design Podcast this week!  Go to www.marriagebydesignpodcast.com to access BOTH video-on-demand and audio-only!
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Devastating Reality of Spiritual Abuse

Abuse is something that we all take (rightfully) very seriously.  However, it seems that spiritual abuse is oftern overlooked, particularly in Christian marriages.  If you or someone you know is being spiritually abused, please know that you are not alone. There is help available. In this episode of the podcast, we will discuss what spiritual abuse is, how to recognize it, and how to make sure that we are not spiritually abusing those that we love.
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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Upcoming Marriage Monday - The Devastating Reality of Spiritual Abuse

Spiritual abuse is a serious issue that can have a devastating impact on victims. It is important to be aware of the signs of spiritual abuse so that you can protect yourself and others.
In our upcoming podcast, we will discuss what spiritual abuse is, how to recognize it, and what you can do if you are being spiritually abused. We will also talk about the importance of seeking help and support if you are a victim of spiritual abuse.
Key Points:
What is spiritual abuse?
How to recognize spiritual abuse
What to do if you are being spiritually abused
Avoiding spiritually abusing those that you love
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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The Hump Day 90 - Is it ever okay for a husband to go to the strip club?

It is never okay for a husband to go to the strip club.
 
A husband's trip to a strip club is a betrayal of trust and a violation of the sacred bond of marriage. It is not okay, and it is never acceptable.
 
A strip club is a place where women are objectified and degraded. It is a place where men go to pay for the attention and affection that they should be getting from their wives.
 
When a husband goes to a strip club, he is telling his wife that she is not enough. He is telling her that he is not satisfied with the love and intimacy that they share.
 
This is a devastating message for a wife to receive. It can damage her self-esteem and make her feel insecure in her marriage - and it is a sin before the Lord.
 
If you are a husband who is considering going to a strip club, please reconsider. Think about the pain that you could cause your wife. Think about the damage that you could do to your marriage.
 
It is not worth it.
 
Instead, focus on strengthening your marriage. Spend time with your wife. Tell her how much you love and appreciate her. Show her that she is the only woman you need.
 
Your marriage is too precious to risk. Don't let a trip to the strip club undermine the foundation of your marriage.
 
Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
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ICYMI - Spiritual Warfare In Marriage

NEW MARRIAGE MONDAY on the Marriage By Design Podcast this week!  Go to www.marriagebydesignpodcast.com to access BOTH video-on-demand and audio-only!
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